Coping with stress:
"When a Martian gets upset he never talks about what is bothering him...
he becomes very quiet and goes to his private cave to think about his problem,
mulling it over to find a solution.
When he has found a solution, he feels much better and comes out of his cave."
"When a Venusian becomes upset or is stressed by her day,
to find relief, she seeks out someone she trusts and then talks in great detail
about the problem of her day.
When Venusians share feeling of being overwhelmed, they suddenly feel better.
This is the Venusian way."
上上星期我轉述了一段書中的話給一位男性友人，
他什麼都沒說，
只伸出左手，
給了我一根中指。
我想男人對這本書的反應都會跟他一樣。
就像另一位說，把它燒掉！
Martians care less about self-help books
while on Venus everyone studies psychology and at least has a master's degree in counselling.
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